AS A GIRL IN AN ENGINEERING

                                                         COLLEGE

I was always a good student a quintessential to all my fellow students.I was bound to clear my engineering exam ,atleast that's what my parents tell me.And so i did to no surprise to anybody.
I actually felt happy to join one of the premier engineering colleges .I was living my share of the 3 IDIOTS movie,atleast the first part.
And as the movie went i had my share of Suffer.Everybody writes about how boys suffer in engineering colleges.Today i write how girls feel the same although much worse.I will tell you.We for starters are the minority 10 in a batch of 120. That means we have atleast 12 of our batchmates prying on us .You will find from seniors to juniors everybody looking straight at our faces.
Over with that part then you have the worthy professors who think that bhai degree to NRI ladke ke liye hi hai.It is already assumed in my class that i understand zero of electronics while even the dumbest chap is thought to be some future Satya Nadela!
My ideas are restricted to only find a suitable ladka thrrough my degree.My new ideas on invention mean nothing while some idiots's stupidity on a project does make a worthwhile sense.
If i in a civilised ,well educated society am facing this i give hats off to those underprivilege but over couraged girls who fight to step out of their homes.
Now come college fests and we are made to serve tea to the judges as if the so called the 1400 boys have fractured their arms and legs.
Our way of dressing indicates what we get in our term work! Bhai laundo ko bhi dekho, shave ka naam bhi nai suna hoga. If we are meant to be "socially well behaved" where does the rule go when the boys are ogling at us whenever we enter the class.It seems we only get the admissions from the Government so as to maintain the decent sex ratio. That's it. No more ,No less than that.
What crime have i done if i chose to be an engineer. Just because i  am a girl you are an idiot to assume that i will complete your assignments.Ladki hu toh you will just make me write the IEEE paper , not be a part of it technically.Bhai saheb Technical work is for all the boys, born engineers hai. But i exams we always top,there is a tagline for that as well,ladki rat sakti hai,practical knowledge is for the boys.And Mechanical is even worse you are not even allowed to work in the workshops,as usual the compliment comes: delicate,nazuk si hi toh hai if they get themselves hurt engineering ka kya hoga?
who even talks like that? well i get to hear it everyday
No wonder we lady engineers are more tuffer and better bosses why?Because we have handled the worst type of people,the people who are dedicated and determined to make you feel odd one out in the class and yes we do defy the odds then
What do you get after 4 years?
A complete susheel bhartiya ladki engineer
Sounds odd but true

Dear Readers
After three posts today i researched as to how to increase my readers?Hence i decided i will ask them as to what i should write.So  i ask all of you from across the globe.Tell me one thing that confuses you alot and about which you want me to write publicly.With a rollercoaster life like mine i bet i can write on it.Do comment as to what else i should write in my post and i shall do it

So until a next confusion to clear,do tell me about your views this time!

I ADMIT:
Ever since i have joined my college it seems as if i am the most uncool person the world can ever see.So i thought today i will write about what the uncool people actually think about the so called "cool" things.
      I admit that i don't drink that does not mean that i am boring,or i cannot have fun at a party,being a teetotaler is my choice and i am proud of it.
     I admit that i don't smoke or do drugs or like topics like marijuana that does not mean i am a kid or i am living a mundane life. My joy and happiness is more defined by good times with my ma,pa and sister.My joy lies in doing something new.My joy lies in watching movies.I don't need to be"stoned" to be happy!
    I admit that i dont understand all the double meaning jokes, i am not a dumb person,it's just that i prefer to use my brain  on something better other than some random nonsense for which i am too smart to process
   I admit that i don't like movies like Deadpool, my taste lies more in In Pursuit Of Happiness.No      explaination for that.
  I admit that at times i don't get permission from my parents to go on wild nightouts.I am not sorry for that.Infact i daresay that i am proud of them, my safety comes before any callous nightout
I admit that my passion lies in books,not that i am a bookworm, but i admit i lack the company of genuine Human friends.The crinkly pages speak louder to me than anybody else.

All these things for 90% of the population may define people like me boring,mundane and that i do not enjoy my life.Some so called cool people also indulge in shaming these unique people to satisfy their hollow egoes.Yes it is disappointing and at times you tend to blame yourself for actually being so different.But today i tell everybody from across the globe who is reading this that being like me, or your unique self  does not give the right to cool people to criticize or insult you any where.Remember they need help because some cannot stand to see unique things.Like the dialogue in Princess Diaries"noboldy can hurt you without your permission",we need to keep in minds that it is our life and our choice .We may not become the next Newton or Michael Jackson for being different but we will become our new self ,a new example to the world.

The confused Indian: Here i write my post as a confused Indian.As a pa...

The confused Indian: Here i write my post as a confused Indian.
As a pa...: Here i write my post as a confused Indian. As a part of the youth we are always labelled as confused,reckless and carefree.But the underly...

Here i write my post as a confused Indian.
As a part of the youth we are always labelled as confused,reckless and carefree.But the underlying truth is that we have been brought up as "confused".Here's how i explain.While growing up we are taught the ethics of patriotism,respect and moral values.The day we step into our colleges the rat race begins to go abroad?.Our parents now tell us to sit for exams loke GRE,TOEFL etc.Where to go?
Sit for the exams?sit for the placements? Where?.Respect for the country?When we think of  all the frustating politics going in our country and think of bringing a change? The answer is No,a plain and a simple no.Because it is unsafe?unrealistic?.The middleclass people cannot go as there is no financial security! Why is it so stylish to talk about Hollywood movies? and Comics? whereas stupid and uncool to talk about hindi movies.All college treats are chinese,continental and italian but talk about Chaat,Paanipuri you will ridiculed like hell. Today we the GEN-Y prefer to associate ourself to all things what we call"vilayti".Anything Indian is Low standards.We mutter Holy Christ under our breath forgetting Krishna but turn to his blessings a day before our exam results.We are such Hypocrites that we like to treat Independence day and Republic day nothing more than national holidays , come India Vs Pakistan match and you see the entire country turn Indian within a day!
Indeed Incredible India!.Now we come to the later part of our lives-Marriage.We are made to live abroad,we infact live abroad in full videsi ishtyle but on the topic of shaadi get sentimental! Bhai now we and our parents want only desi ladhka and ladkhi.
Well  as of now as i write i am still confused whom am i addressing to? Is it my ownself or there are may like me?

P.S feel free to tell your confused indian experiences!